"Our chief want is someone who will inspire us to be what we know we could be." Ralph Waldo Emerson

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The mission of Real Positive Vibes, RPV, is to help society move toward goodness, finding it within themselves by seeing it in others. RPV is a service of Church Builders Bible Training Center whose mission is to help each person discover their vision for life, find their passion, and focus their purpose. We are a Spirit-led, Christ-centered ministry that has a multi-ethnic, interdenominational, and non-traditional approach to church community to engage, equip and empower people. Find out more: bibletc.com/vision

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Positivity in Practice 

Choose To Encourage

“Yelling at living things does tend to kill the spirit in them. Sticks and stones may break our bones, but words will break our hearts...” ― Robert Fulghum

This quote is more in line with reality than the old cliche. "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me!"

Boy, do words hurt both in the moment and for longer than we care to admit. Think back to when you were a child. Do you remember being teased on the playground at school or being called, "fat, ugly, or stupid?" I still remember; I was called fat as a child.

When you mature, you get over it, though, right? Actually, no. There is remarkable psychological evidence that proves words matter. In the PsychCentral October 2022, article entitled Do Words Have the Power to Change the Brain? by Dr. Debra Rose Wilson, she outlines staggering proofs that words indeed matter. The conclusions are clear; when spoken words are harsh and discouraging, they have lasting mental effects that hinder development or even healing when given by medical professionals. Conversely, those who receive encouraging words can receive more confidence, overcome fears, recover physically, and more.

There is even more sound biblical evidence you can read about.

In this positivity in practice, focus on giving truthful and kind words. In humility, be quick to hear and slow to speak, even in anger. Take a breath and find words that help solve the problem or at least de-escalate the situation. When you do this, you will find you have less broken relationships. You will feel the need to apologize less. The people around you will be happier, and you will, too.

Think back to those playground days again. Imagine you were called "beautiful, smart, and energetic" instead. How would your self-talk be different? How would you view yourself? I just saw you smile. That is the power of words. How many things in life bring so many wins at once? There aren't many, but let this be one of yours.

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